Wednesday, March 25, 2020

G spot


Techniques For Stimulating G spot
Lie back with your knees pressed up to your chest. In this position, your vaginal depth will shorten and even small fingers should be able to reach the G-spot. With a partner, lie on your side with one leg drawn up to your chest as your partner enters you from the rear. He should be able to hit the spot.
The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gently stroking is not likely to get any results. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - one has to compress the flesh to find it.
Insert fingers and bend them gently up, around and behind the pubic bone. Beyond the rather rough-surfaced tissue immediately behind her pubic bone, your fingertips will encounter a very soft, smooth area. Go very slowly and let her tell you what she feels as you explore the smooth area, which will feel to you like the inside of a very slippery mitten. When you straighten your fingers and reach further inside, you'll encounter a hard, rubbery structure that feels like an erect nipple pointing south. This is her cervix. The G-spot is somewhere just his side of the cervix, about an inch beyond the mitten, in the flesh immediately in front of the vagina.
Imagine you're holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach. It can be anywhere along that two-or-three inch long area between the pubic bone and the cervix. Explore slowly, allowing for feedback front he woman - let her guide your fingers with her words if she can feel the stimulation. The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gentle stroking is not likely to find it. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - one has to compress the flesh to find it.
When you reach in from the front with the woman on her back, the heel of your hand is over her clitoris while your fingers hook around her pubic bone. Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift her off the bed. Do this with the same sort of rhythm you'd use fucking, and keep your fingers hooked, so they press deep into the tissue. Once you know where it is you can try using your penis on it, but for good G-spot orgasm, she may prefer your hand. In face-to-face intercourse, the penis may not stimulate the spot enough to do any good, although some positions, such as the one where the women draws her knees close to her chest, may increase the changes for a G-spot orgasm.

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

Baker Act (No.1 Bondage Therapy)

Baker Act
(No.1 Bondage Therapy)
 By. Sir Black



The Baker Act allows for involuntary examination (what some call emergency or involuntary commitment). It can be initiated by judges, law enforcement officials, physicians, or mental health professionals. There must be evidence that the person: possibly has a mental illness (as defined in the Baker Act)
“Patient 09091996, Lisa Howard, has been Baker Acted. She was to be taken against her will at 9:30pm leaving the nail shop close to her residents. A team of abduction and takedown specialist "The Body Snatchers”tracked and waited for her to leave. Then took her by force as she fought. Her arms and legs where bound and she was thrown into the trunk of her own car. Here is the footage of her takedown. We brought her here as you requested Sir.”

“ Thank you very much for your service, I will take it from here," says Sir.
Lisa is very troubled she has been a major whore, a sex addict, a nymphomaniac. Over the past year her life has been constant stream of new partners and an ever increasing desire for more intense sexual experiences. She has broken the commitment, bond, and the trust that we shared as well as my heart. And for that she shall be punished severely with some of the most intense bondage therapy I have ever given. The only one you will ever be a whore for again WILL BE ME!

They only way to satisfy me is to provide her with the perfect encounter. I will need to punisher her, break her this entire treatment will take our relationship to another level of rough play.
“Hello Lisa, I am Dr.Black and you are now in my care.  You know why you are here correct? You’re here because you’re a fuck whore ass slut who can’t keep her fucking legs close.  Struggle as much as you would like your completely helpless and at my will. I am going to do to you whatever the fuck I want to and no one can stop me. Try and scream as you may, no one can hear you. You are nothing but a piece of fuck meat. You only exist for my pleasure. I’m going to use every one of your holes and every inch of your body you little nasty bitch. Once I cut your fucking clothes off we shall began. The table you’re tied down to was specially construct for you, I created it myself. You will find that its design allows me to position and reposition without untying you for this therapy.”

 Taking my sheers out and cutting away your clothes exposing you sexy tone body. Mmmm if you could only see what I do.... Grabbing a spray bottle off the table and spraying you down in coconut oil. Then rubbing it into your skin taking inventory of every inch. I love to feel your flesh under my fingers. Stepping back and gazing at you taking a deep breath closing my eyes leaning my head back and exhaling slowly.

The Sadist has been freed. In a deep voice speaking slowly sounding like a completely different person "I’m going to break you and once I break you then I’m going to rape you."
Every great chef knows the importance of tenderizing their meat. Taking my flogger I start with very rhythmic strokes across your thighs, stomach and chest. The way you move under my flogger and whip, the little moans and screams that come out of you, drives me to hit you harder. 

          “I want to hear you scream bitch, SCREAM! Looking at your skin become blood flushed and the slob foam up in the corners of your mouth turns me on even more. I want it to burn the way my eyes did when I learned of all the fucking people you fucked, WHORE! Once I see that you’re falling into subspace, I’m going to stop grab my pail of clothes pins and a spool of twine. I’m going to take a pinch of flesh just below your under arm and attach a cloth pin with twine and create a trail of them down each side of your body these are called zippers. Stick your fucking tongue out and I’m going to add a clothes pin on the end of your tongue around you tits and nipples.”

Then I’m going to place three cloth pins on each of your pussy lips. Then create two more zippers on the inside of your thighs. Take my riding crop and slap your pussy making it swell.
“Does that sting? Good it should. This is for each day that you lied to me. You’re going to pay for your sins. Now that your pussy and clit have become engorged and swollen I'm going to stuff two of my fingers deep inside of you.  Mmmm… what have we here, your soaking fucking wet? You’re a real fucking slut aren’t you? You’re enjoying this aren’t you bitch? Okay now let’s see how you enjoy this next part.”

Reaching under the table and removing a pin allows me to invert the table turning you upside down forcing the blood to your head. Placing the pin back locks the table in place. Taking on D.O.S (Dick on a Stick) lubing it up sliding it into your pussy. Taking the clothes pin off your tongue then forcing your mouth back open by hold your nose close and stuffing my dick inside of it.

“Are you sorry yet? Do you regret cheating on me?  You will... At this point your mind can no longer distinguish pain from pleasure. This makes 15 minutes , are those tears I see REAL TEARS... Just what I've been waiting for. Now for the next part of your treatment. I have a projector on the floor that’s attach to a laptop positioning the projector to project on the ceiling above you so you can see. I have created a movie of all the photos, videos and messages of the different people you were with and all the things you recorded with them.” An open hand slap to the side of your face. “Open your fucking eyes you did it now watch. Because I going to take that pussy while you watch.”  Grabbing my flogger using it to as a delivery system for the impact of rhythmic pain I want you to feel. Pounding against your flesh with the same pace in which my heart raced. “You’ll never be the same after I am done with you.  Your mind, body and soul belong to me.”

Moving the fuck saw out of the way and repositioning the Hitachi. Forcing myself inside of you wrapping my hand around your throat and choking you as I ram my dick in and out of you look at what you've done you stupid bitch. Slapping you in the face pounding you harder I fucking hate you bitch. Spitting in your face and slapping you around. You’re nothing but a fucking cum dump and I’ve written it on your forehead just after I whipped your eyebrows off. Stretching you out with my Big Black Cock.

“You are a “Cum Whore” aren’t you? Say it louder!  I’m going to unload inside of you. You little piece of fucking trash. You are nothing more than my Cum Dump. You’re only reason for living is to milk my cock. As a matter of fact you not worthy of my load Bitch earn it. You don’t have what it takes to please me. I am too much for you to handle. That’s the reason you went out and slept with all these low life bottom feeders. They are easily pleased, easily satisfied. You’re going to have to prove yourself to me. Now earn it if you want my cum. Bitch you better earn it squeeze your pussy around my cock as I pound it lose. Look at the video bitch, and beg for my cum. Make me cum you worthless whore!” As your pussy throbs uncontrollable squeezing your throat and you start to lose consciousness I explode with such power and viciousness emptying myself inside of you. Standing there as my dick throbs inside of you. Slowly backing out of you and walking away leaving you there for an hour or two to marinate in our juices. This is a very good start, now you’re nice and warmed up! Secession No.1 is competed, prepare her for the next therapeutic secession. Secession No.2 Objectification

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Swinging Vs. Polyamory


Swinging Vs. Polyamory

Brush up on your lingo, monogamists. We’re talking two very different things.





Monogamists often confuse swinging and polyamory, thinking the terms are synonymous. But as swingers who’ve had experience with polyamory, we know the differences. There’s even a saying among non-monogamists: “Swinging kills polyamory and polyamory kills swinging.” Both groups share a consensual non-monogamous lifestyle that involves intimate relationships with more than one person, but that’s where the similarities end.

Swinging
In swinging, the default dynamic is a primary relationship of one couple. As opposed to cheating, the partners are honest and open with each other about their sexual relationships with others. Sex with other people is typically an activity couples engage in together. This means that they go to online swinger dating sites or to swinger parties or clubs, where they meet potential partners together. There are various approaches to swinging and most couples make their preferences public on dating sites, to make sure they only attract other like-minded people. Couples will define, in advance, the level of sexual intimacy with which they are comfortable.
Male swingers are typically heterosexual (at least outwardly), while bisexuality among women is common. Some couples get into swinging because the woman wants girl-on-girl experience or they may be looking for the mythical “unicorn.” The unicorn, described as such because of her rareness and desirability, is a single female who will play with couples. Swingers often use the word “play” to describe sexual interaction.
There are several ways to classify a couple’s swinger status:

  • Soft swap refers to couples who limit sexual intimacy with others to oral sex.
  • Full swap couples permit full penetration as well as oral sex.
  • Reciprocal swapping means that each partner in the original couple plays with the corresponding partner in the other couple. This is typically heterosexual — female from Couple A plays with male from Couple B and vice versa.
  • Full open couples permit each other to seek out separate partners, who are not necessarily partnered themselves. This also means one person’s play does not depend on their partner playing.
Swinger couples also define their preferences in other ways. For example, there are distinctions for same-room-only couples, as opposed to couples who are comfortable with separate rooms. If this sounds “transactional,” that’s because the set-up is very structured, as opposed to the more organic flirting and hooking up that occurs in the outside world, which swingers refer to as the “vanilla” world. These rules make it easier for relative strangers to negotiate physical intimacy. 


With the exception of their extracurricular hobby, swinger couples tend to look a lot like traditional couples. Often, swinging is the only non-conventional aspect of swingers’ behavior. In general, swingers are very focused on their primary relationship and tend to be wary of anything they perceive threatening to it. They often have traditional relationships, families and jobs. Many  people go into swinging with the intention that they will not develop feelings for others. The easiest way to do this is to limit sex with the same people to a one-time or few-times basis. These are the proverbial “hit it and quit it” or “one and done” couples, also known as bed-notchers.
Swingers tend to focus on compartmentalizing sex and feelings; they often believe that it is not possible to have feelings of attachment to more than one person at the same time.

Polyamory
If you read books geared to the polyamory community such as The Ethical Slut, or spend time on polyamory discussion boards, you’ll observe the polyamorous belief that loving multiple people is like loving your various children. Your love for one child does not diminish your love for the other. The prejudice against loving more than one person, stems in part from our conception of romantic love and the paradigm that there is only one person who is meant to complete us. The authors of The Ethical Slut call this prejudice against loving more than one person at the same time a “starvation economy” approach: the belief that there is a limited amount of love to go around and that you cannot give love to one person without taking from the other. 


Polyamorous people have a broader conception of love and relationships. They feel that multiple relationships can complement each other and take the burden off a primary relationship for meeting all of the individual’s emotional needs. As opposed to swingers, whose relationship is based on one primary couple, polyamorists tend to view relationships with greater fluidity when it comes to gender identity, number of lovers, and the overlapping relationships that may evolve among the various lovers.

Swingers occasionally find themselves unexpectedly in polyamorous relationships, when unexpected feelings develop across two couples. How well they navigate this transition depends on whether all four people are on the same page regarding expectations for the new relationship, and how committed they are to making it work. It is challenging enough to make a two-person relationship work. Making a four-person relationship work requires some very sophisticated communication tools.
Polyamory is more likely to work when all participating couples start out with very stable relationships to begin with, and when all the participants can overcome their jealousy regarding a partner’s emotional commitment to—not just sexual interaction with—another person. All partners must be on the same page regarding the time commitment (both in person and online) given to their new lovers. All members of the group must relate well to and respect each other (not just their lover, but their lover’s partner). And finally, all members must learn how to communicate effectively with each other when inevitable conflicts arise, and commit to resolving those conflicts.


Astrid Daley-Douglas is a small business owner and author living in Atlanta. Claire De Haven is a retired entrepreneur, writer and mother, living in Atlanta. Both are active participants, organizers and bloggers in the local swinger community. They can be found at http://theswingerdiaries.blogspot.com/ and on Twitter @swingerdiary.

Monday, February 6, 2017

18 Years a Poly Unit: Orpheus and Indigo Black


18 Years a Poly Unit: Orpheus and Indigo Black

  by Wry,
 This discussion group provides an open forum for exploration of monogamy, non-monogamy, and the myriad of variations in which modern day relationships function.
Discover what's best for you, be it monogamy, polyamory, or some other option on the endless list of variations in Non-Monogamy. I celebrate and validate the full spectrum of options.

Polyamory (from Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love") is typically the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".



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Saturday, January 2, 2016

Cold Play: Ice Dildo

 
Ice Dildo 
 Take Sensation Play to another level



What you'll need
  • Condom
  • Cardboard tube
  • Pair of scissors
  • Tape
  •  A freezer
 (You can also use things like an ace bandage and rubber bands etc. to add shapes texture)

If you want to move beyond the basic dildo explained here and make more realistic sex toys out of ice, here's something that can help.
Sensation of cold. In fact, I've known many people who enjoy bringing ice cubes into the bedroom; the next logical step up, I think, is to make sex toys out of ice.

This is actually very easy to do. With only a few supplies you probably already have lying around, you can make a simple dildo from ice. You can use it the way one would normally use a dildo; being penetrated by ice offers an intense sensation that some people really like. Or, you can use it the way you'd use a more conventional ice cube, running it over and across your body (or your partner's).
I've heard of people making frozen sex toys out of things like Kool-Aide or fruit juice. Generally speaking, it's wise not to use anything containing sugar internally; in some women, this can lead to rather unpleasant yeast infections. Sticking with plain water for this sort of thing is best.
Always run an ice cube or ice dildo under cool tap water before you use it for penetration. Make sure the surface of the ice has started to melt. This prevents it from freezing any moisture on any part of your body it may touch; you don't want the "tongue frozen to a cold metal bar" effect, particularly in parts of your body more sensitive than your tongue!

Moving beyond the basics: How to make an ice dildo

If you and your lover like using ice, you can create your own sex toys made of ice just by using a condom, water, and some ingenuity.
Start with the cardboard tube from a roll of paper towels. With a pair of scissors, cut the tube lengthwise all the way down its length. Roll the tube to the diameter you'd like the finished dildo to be, and wrap tape around it to hold it at that size. Take a condom and put it into the top of the cardboard tube, and then overlap the top half inch or so of the condom around the edge of the tube as shown:








 

You can use a lubricated or none lubricated condom. If you use a lubricated condom, avoid spermicide lubricated ones, because the spermicidal lubricant can get funky when it freezes.
Carefully fill the condom to the top with water. Stand the tube upright in the freezer, and wait a few hours. In a few hours, the water will freeze. Remove the tube from the freezer. Carefully lift the top edge of the condom from around the tube and tie it in a knot to keep the water from leaking out as the ice melts. Then cut the tape holding the tube closed and remove the ice dildo.


When you're finished, the ice dildo should look like the one shown below. If you like, you can take extra steps to make a fancier dildo by doing things to the cardboard tube before you place the condom in it. For example, if you take thick cord and wrap it in a spiral on the inside of the tube, the finished ice dildo will have a spiral ridge in it. If you take a small sheet of bubble wrap cut to the same width as the inside circumference of the tube and slide it into the tube before you put the condom in it, the finished ice dildo will have a dimpled, textured surface.
Use the dildo without removing it from the condom; as the ice melts, it will create a layer of water inside the condom that creates a very interesting sensation.



Remember, always run the ice dildo under cool water before you use it. This removes any frost from its surface and starts the outer edge of the ice melting. You don't want to use ice internally until it has started to melt and has a thin layer of water on its surface, or the ice may freeze to your skin.
If you want to get more fancy still, you can use a dildo-shaped ice mold to create frozen dildos. For the greatest level of personalize, the same kits that let you create a dildo from a person's penis can also be used to create an ice dildo; simply fill the mold, once it's made, with water instead of the provided rubber material. (Depending on your partner's shape, it may be necessary to modify the mold after it's made by carving out any undercuts to help the ice dildo slide out more easily.)
Want your ice cubes or ice dildos to look better? If you boil water and then let it cool before freezing it, the ice will be transparent rather than cloudy.


Want your ice cubes or ice dildos to look better? If you boil water and then let it cool before freezing it, the ice will be transparent rather than cloudy. Cloudiness in ice cubes is the result of dissolved air in the water, which is displaced and forms thousands of tiny bubbles when the water freezes. Boiling the water drives out the dissolved air, which produces ice that is transparent when it freezes.
 
I've heard of people making frozen sex toys out of things like Kool-Aide or fruit juice. Generally speaking, it's wise not to use anything containing sugar internally; in some women, this can lead to rather unpleasant yeast infections. Sticking with plain water for this sort of thing is best.

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Erotic asphyxiation or breath control play



Asphyxiation - (See also Breath Control Choking ) Commonly referred to as "breath control". Refers to play involving control of or restriction of air and / or oxygen to the brain. Any form of stopping breathing freely including choking, smothering and hoods with tubes, sacks, plastics, etc, is asphyxia.  Sometimes used to cause a more intense orgasm. Other examples would be strangling which is compression of the neck or throat area to prevent oxygen to the brain; suffocation involves reducing the level of oxygen available to breathe; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck (remember, all these games are extremely dangerous , either alone or with a partner, and may cause DEATH ).

The sexual practice called asphyxiophiliaautoerotic asphyxia,hypoxyphilia.
Erotic asphyxiation, Breath control play or EA, is is the intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for the purposes of sexual arousal. How to get to that point is up to the individual. Rope, hands, bags, cling-film, water—the method can be chosen to suit the desired effect. For some, this is just the thrill of being dominated with a hand on the throat, for others the sensation of oxygen being cut off from the brain heightens the intensity of an orgasm. For others, the aim is to pass out completely. The negative side effects can range from cardiac arrest to permanent brain damage. The likelihood of this happening increases when EA is done alone "autoerotic asphyxiation."The term autoerotic asphyxiation is used when the act is done by a person to themselves. Colloquially, a person engaging in the activity is sometimes called agasper. The erotic interest in asphyxiation is classified as a paraphilia.


Erotic Asphyxiation is not a game it is very serious, if your going to engage in it  please practice it properly educated and in a safe manner.

There are many different techniques here are a few 

 










With this technique the point is not to crush the esophagus, but to apply pressure to the carotid arteries stopping the oxygen circulation to the brain. Simply create a V shape with your hand by allowing your palm to rest against the esophagus without causing any obstruction to the windpipe, and  squeeze down on the arteries. you don't want to stop your partner from breathing completely, just make them lightheaded.




Intro to Kink: Breath 

 



Choke Stroke





 

Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Vacuum bed, Cube & Tower

 

A vacuum bed is a device sometimes used in BDSM play. A person is placed in a latex envelope spanned by a frame and a suction pump or floor vacuum removes most of the air in the envelope. The frame can be either a simple rectangle of pierced pvc pipes, joined by pvc joints, or three dimensional frames of various sizes, with a similar pvc construction.

There are several ways that the vacuum bed can be designed to facilitate breathing. The most common is a tube running from outside of the vacuum bed into the person's mouth. A second option is a reinforced hole that is positioned so that the mouth protrudes. A third option is a reinforced gasket through which one forces the entire head. Incorporating a related fetish, some vacuum beds use a gas mask to facilitate respiration.

The vacuum bed is both a bondage and sensation device. The user is unable to move significantly (although some wiggling is possible), and is unable to speak or see, depending on the breathing hole used. In addition, though, the sensation of the vacuum bed itself, as well as any other play (stroking, percussion, vibrations) are quite pleasurable, and some are much more intense than what would be experienced without the vacuum bed. The vacuum bed must be used with the aid of another person, as the user cannot control the vacuum itself, nor escape the vacuum bed unaided. There is also a danger of positional asphyxia, as well as the other dangers associated with bondage activities.

Vacuum bed in action

 

 

Vacuum Cube

The Vac Cube is a 3d version of the vacbed that allows for access to all parts of the body, and even better you can flip and roll the person while they are suctioned inside. When rolling someone from the kneeling position to belly down, the person becomes suspended entirely by the latex and frame as they float about 6" above the bottom of the frame. You can then bounce, touch and spank the person inside. Vac Cube is the world's first sealing vac cube that does not require the Vacuum cleaner to be attached and running all the time... so you can enjoy the sensation of being suspended in latex without the noise of a constantly running vacuum (and without danger of the vacuum overheating)


 

 

Vacuum Tower

The Vac Tower is a 3d version of the vacbed that allows for access to all parts of the body, and even better you can stand up and even fit more than one person while suctioned inside. This totally unique vacuum bondage experience is wonderful for photography and special events. People love to do demonstrations in this vac-tower!